Archive for January, 2010

5 Keys To Financial Freedom

Thursday, January 28th, 2010

This morning, the sky looked black and foreboding. A few light streaks where dawn was trying to break through heavy clouds. A shining pale apricot sun shone through a gap, lighting up the stormy sea.  The morning later opened out into clear blue skies, a fresh wind and a sun that actually felt hot. In January.

Issues around money are sensitive. Our sense of self-esteem, sense of personal value and even our sense of survival hangs around money. Money is emotive. Financial markets are driven by “sentiment”.  We do not need to be so driven.

Financial freedom does not mean license for unlimited spending.  Financial freedom is enjoying your life with an absence of concern relating to money. You are happily accountable for your income and expenditure; being rewarded for giving your time, talents and gifts; enjoying a sense of flow, well-being and connection with life around you.

The 5 Keys I am offering here are a beginning, a good place to start.

1.  Accept the issue

If you are not enjoying financial freedom, it is likely you have an issue. Anything from debt, to a nagging sense of lack, to guilt, resentment or fear relating to money. Acceptance is not hopeless resignation. It is a first step towards effecting a positive change for the better.

2.  Forgive

Negative emotions keep you stuck and trapped in limited beliefs, attitudes and patterns of behaviour. Forgive yourself for any mistakes you have made.  Forgive yourself for being hard on yourself.  Forgive yourself for the judgments you have held against any others, whether they are family members, politicians, corporate leaders – anyone you have assumed has leadership over your life. Forgive the circumstances that have led you to the issue you are experiencing.

In forgiving, let go of the past. Allow a positive change of conditions and outlook to become real for you.

3.  Get your financial house in order

Know where you stand with your money as it is now. If you need assistance in coming to grips with your finances, go and find it.  Know what monies are outstanding – in payment to you, and that you have to pay. Know what your assets are. Do you have any unopened invoices or bank statements? Fear can drive you away from gathering this information. There is power in knowledge. A financial issue does not make you a bad person. Financial freedom will make you a happier person.

4.  Identify your needs

While sorting out your financial position, live according to your needs. What do you need for food, shelter, clothing (the essential), recreation (does not have to be expensive). Cut back excesses like possibly cable tv, magazine subscriptions, the gym that you-never-attend-but-might-one-day. Discover how creative you can get with fulfilling your needs now.

5.  Explore new avenues for income….

……that serve others with your gifts and talents

Financial freedom is grown in part through your willingness to give to others, and your openness to receive from your world. You may have a vocation which you love, which enriches you as you express it, and others as they receive from you.  It may be that you give voluntarily of a talent, which leads to your paid employment.

Celebrate the richness with which you are born!  It will be harder to feel financial insecurity when you are doing what you really love.

The dark clouds of debt, self-doubt and the foreboding feelings around finances can be blown aside by the winds of change. You can begin to activate the winds of change with these 5 Keys. Behind the clouds of confusion are warmth, light and clarity;  joy and enthusiasm.

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Wishing you health, happiness – and financial freedom!

New Wealth Is… Knowing That You Count

Wednesday, January 20th, 2010

I live beside the Mediterranean Sea.  The view is breath-taking. It literally inspires me. The sounds of the sea birds, and the water lapping on the beach refresh me.

Last night, I assisted again on the Marriage Course, which could equally well be called the Couples Course – and there is something in it also for singles.  One of the points made yesterday in the session: Building Strong Foundations was the difference between the excitement of dating and the humdrum of marriage.

Marriage is the relationship in which you can most easily discover the strengths and weaknesses that make up your personality, and who you truly are, deep down beyond the personality.  You have a voice, and your voice counts.  How you use your voice can create an abiding love that flourishes, or something much less enjoyable and enduring.  You count.

Many years ago, I had the feeling that I did not belong in this world.  As the saying goes, I felt like a stranger in a strange land.  Waking up this morning, the thought travelled through my mind again.  How would I address it?  Simply.

A couple of days ago, a friend sent me this video:

The Art of Blessing

It reminded me first of all, to be grateful.  Why?  Because I am blessed in many ways – with good friends who care about me; with a loving family; with a beautiful home; with a spiritual path that nourishes and enriches me;  with teachers and students who help me to awaken to more of the goodness in me and in my world.

Secondly, I recognized again how I can be a blessing.  An attitude of gratitude lifts me to a greater awareness of the blessings that are available to be shared with us all.  I can extend a prayer for happiness to those who are sad or in distress.  I can speak a kind word to someone who feels isolated and lonely,  I can touch a hand that is cold and withdrawn and give it my love; I can send a donation to alleviate suffering to those in crisis; I can embrace a friend with a warm hug.

So in a marriage, you may look for the faults in your loved one and complain when your needs are not being met. Or you can celebrate their beauty and uniqueness and look at how you may be able to give to them what they need on their life’s journey.  You can be a blessing.  You can be grateful. It is a choice.  You count.

Whether or not I feel I belong, I can create heaven or hell through my experience of living in this world.  My choice.  I count.

And the Sea?  Constantly changing, and humbling.  I may be a drop in the ocean, but where I am, I still count.



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